Network Marketing RULES!!

OK. This is something that I have to write about. It’s a pet peeve of mine.

If someone introduces themselves to you as Christine, signs all emails to you as Christine or was introduced to you by someone else as Christine, DO NOT CALL HER CHRIS!!!

Your goal in MLM/Network Marketing is to create relationships. If you don’t pay attention to how people want you to address them you are not going to be able to create relationships.

For example, I introduce myself and sign my posts and emails as Roxanne. If I know you I may sign my emails as Rox. You may call me either Roxanne or Rox if I have signed my name that way in an email to you. YOU MAY NOT CALL ME ROXY unless you know me well. There are a few people who I allow to call me Roxy. If the only contact you have had with me has been with the name Roxanne, call me Roxanne. If I meet someone and I’m introduced as Roxanne and they call me Rox, that ticks me right off. However, if I’ve known someone for a while and they call me Rox, that’s OK. When you shorten someone’s name, it implies familiarity. If you have never talked to me, you are not familiar with me enough to call me anything but Roxanne. If you give someone a nickname, it implies familiarity. Don’t do it unless you have created a relationship with them. I have a friend who calls me RoxStarr. He can get away with that. However, if someone who just met me tried it, I would be upset.

Some people intentionally shorten the names of the people they are talking to. These people are attempting to create a FALSE sense of familiarity. It will backfire on you. You end up looking like a slick car salesman and people shy away from you. Don’t do it.

Once you know someone and have a relationship with them, you can probably call them whatever you want, however, if you’ve just met someone, call them by the name they used when they introduced themselves to you. Or the name they were introduced to you as. Do not shorten their name unless you ask what THEY prefer to be called.

My email address begins with mommyroxy. But DON’T call me Mommy. That is ridiculous. I had someone the other day who called and said “Is Mommy there?” I said no. My Mommy is in Montana. My name - Roxanne - is plastered all over everything I write on the internet. There is no excuse for not knowing my name. Simply pay attention.

If someone signs their emails to you as Judith and calls you and says “This is Judith” don’t call them JUDY!
If someone signs their emails to you as Ronald and calls you and says “This is Ronald” don’t call them RONNY!
If someone signs their emails to you as Reginald and calls you and says “This is Reginald” don’t call them REGGIE!
If someone signs their emails to you as Melissa and calls you and says “This is Melissa” don’t call them MISSY!

I think you get the point.

Find out how to create relationships and LISTEN to what people want and need, not what you want and need.

YOU Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne Green~

In today’s post, John Fogg makes an excellent point. Be careful what you focus on.

I see it every day. Negativity. Instead of focusing on what’s right with something, lots of people focus on what’s wrong.

Mother Theresa said it best:

“I was once asked why I don’t participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I’ll be there.”

She knew what she was talking about. Positive thinking is a powerful thing. The law of attraction says we get more of what we focus on. If we focus on negative, we’ll get more negative. If we focus on positive, we’ll get more positive.

There’s nothing wrong with trying to make something better, but when you go about it like K2 does, always focusing on the negative, you bring about more negative.

Be careful what you think/talk about.

Where is YOUR focus?

YOU Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne Green~
Success in 10 Steps

I took my husband for a follow up appointment this week with his surgeon (he had hernia surgery recently). In this building of Surgical Specialists, there are 5 different surgeons. When you walk in the door, there is a walkway up to the desk and a large open waiting room on each side of the walkway. We checked in and sat down. A lady sitting near us began to talk with me. Soon more people came in and some of them sat in “our corner”. We were all chatting and just passing time.

Being a blue personality, I’m a master at multi-tasking, so I was noticing a few things going on around us. In the “other corner” of our waiting room, there were a few people grumbling that they had been there for a long time waiting. As each new person came to sit in that corner, they began grumbling along with the others already there. As each new person came to sit in “our corner”, they joined in the conversation and began chatting with us.

It was amazing to watch.

When someone from “our corner” got called to see a doctor, all of us were happy for him or her. We all said good luck and smiled and knew that we were that much closer to getting called ourselves.

When someone from the “other corner” got called to see a doctor, everyone else grumbled and complained that it wasn’t them. They grumbled that they had been waiting “forever” and said things like “I don’t know why I don’t find another doctor”.

What can you learn from the people in the waiting room at the doctor’s office?

It’s important to be around like minded people.

When you hang around with people who grumble and complain, you will start grumbling and complaining. Your life will suddenly take a downward turn just to prove that you are right.

When you hang around with people who are positive and upbeat, your will become positive and upbeat. Your life will suddenly take an upward turn just to prove that you are right.

This is the law of attraction at work. You get what you focus on. Focus on negative, you will get negative. Focus on positive, you will get positive. It’s just that simple.

What are YOU manifesting?

Join a group of positive people who will help you manifest positive.

YOU Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne Green~

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Are you coachable? I mean really coachable.

Are you willing to learn from those who have gone before you? Are you willing to learn from someone who is successful building a network marketing business TODAY?

There are so many network marketing trainers out there trying to tell you how to build a business. The first thing to ask someone who you choose to be your coach and mentor is:

Are you building today?
Are you successful building today?
Are you in touch with what is going on in MLM today?

I followed one specific trainer for quite a while. I always listened to this person, but never had success. I was trying to work this business the way this person taught me. This person recently started their own network marketing company. That network marketing company is crashing because they don’t want to be “one of those things”. They are changing the whole business model. BUT…this person (who wasn’t successful starting their own company) still wants to be a network marketing trainer.

What kind of a network marketing trainer doesn’t want to have a company that’s “one of those things”?

I have NEVER had anyone ask me “Is this one of those things?” I have never had anyone tell me they didn’t want to buy my products because it’s “one of those things”.

This is about as bad as the MLM trainers who teach “handling objections”.

YOU GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON!!!

This is a proven fact. If you are focused on people not wanting to join “one of those things”, you will attract people who don’t want “one of those things”. If you are focused on overcoming objections, the universe WILL give you objections to overcome. Just like you asked for.

Mentoring For Free can help teach you the SKILLS you need to be successful. You do NOT have to call leads. You do not EVER have to deal with objections or rejection again. We can teach you how to use a PROVEN system to be successful.

Stop struggling today!!

This business is not easy, but it’s simple. It’s not get rich quick, but you CAN get rich. It’s fun. If you are coachable and can follow a PROVEN system and the advice of someone who is building today, I can help you.

YOU Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne Green~
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Your mind is being PROGRAMMED every day!!

No, this isn’t being done by some secret government agency. It’s out in the open. It’s blatant.

Here’s a portion of a hit song by the Rolling Stones:

You can’t always get what you want, no!
You can’t always get what you want (tell ya baby)
You can’t always get what you want (no)
But if you try sometimes you just might find
You get what you need
Oh yes! Woo!

You get what you need–yeah, oh baby!
Oh yeah!

How do you think that affects you when that song just will not get out of your head? You hear it in the morning and you go through your day singing it in your head. “You can’t always get what you want.” and “But if you try sometimes you just might find You get what you need.”

I could list any number of song lyrics but I won’t go that far. I think you get the point.

Your subconscious mind does NOT know the difference between what is real and what is imagined. It’s true - go do some research and you will find out that numerous studies have been done to prove it.

THIS, my friend, is the reason why most people just barely get by. It wasn’t playing the records backward after all!! It’s just playing them. And it wasn’t even subliminal programming. It was/is out in the open.

You can’t always get what you want. But if you try sometimes you just might find you get what you need

You keep telling yourself that because, remember, the subconscious mind doesn’t know the difference. You sing it all day long and your mind begins to believe that you CAN’T always get what you want, but if you try you MIGHT find that you get what you NEED.

YOU DO NOT NEED ANYTHING but food, clothing and shelter. It took me a long time to realize this. It hit me the other day during my prayers. I thanked God for always making sure our NEEDS were met. He does that.

BECAUSE THAT’S ALL I EVER ASKED FOR!!!

I didn’t ask for more because subconscious programming told me that I “get what I need”. Subconscious programming told me that I “can’t always get what I want”.

WOW - who doesn’t like the Rolling Stones? Let’s say - for the sake of argument - that you are one of the few who do not like the Stones. OK. Go google the lyrics to one of your favorite songs and see what you are being programmed with.

Here’s another example of past programming.

All of my childhood, my step-father called me “Crisco - Fat in the Can” and he would laugh and laugh. I thought I was fat. I grew up thinking I was fat. When I was 19, I lived with my younger brother. I used to borrow his jeans (I was quite the tomboy). They were 28W 32L. THAT IS NOT FAT!! I would LOVE to be able to wear 28 waist pants now.

Because I grew up with the programming that I was fat, after years of me telling myself that I was fat guess what? I became FAT!! I weighed around 340 lbs.

YUP - because if you tell your mind something long enough - it does not know the difference between what is real and what is imagined. (In the past year and a half, I’ve released a lot and now weight around 250 lbs.)

Be very careful what you choose to listen to, say to yourself, believe.

Who and/or What is programming YOUR mind??

You Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne Green~
Learn HOW to think, not WHAT to think

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How many times have you heard “Don’t talk about it or you’ll jinx it”? This phrase was most likely made up by someone who has NO CLUE what the Law of Attraction is.

We are all individuals in the Universe, but we are all part of the collective universal subconsciousness. We’re all connected. Your thoughts affect me, my thoughts affect you. Let’s say you tell a friend or two about something you are wanting to attract to yourself using the Law of Attraction. Your friend is thinking something like “OH - don’t talk about it or you’ll jinx it” or “Why in the world would he want to have THAT?”. That is counterproductive to what you are attempting to manifest through the Law of Attraction.

As long as you keep the specifics of what you want to yourself, the negative feelings of others can’t be directed toward you specifically when that is coming to be.

MIND YOUR OWN MANIFESTATIONS

YOU manifest for YOU. You can NOT manifest for others. Your manifestations are your own. You can ask that your family and friends are safe and protected, but you can NOT ask that your child to to a certain college or follow a certain career path. You can not even ask that your spouse continue to be your spouse. That may not be what they want and their feelings toward it will counteract yours and your feelings will counteract their wants. You can ask for the perfect relationship and get clear on what that relationship is and what it feels like, but you can not ask for a specific person to be that partner.

You can ask for a person with certain qualities to join your business, but you can not ask for a certain person to join your business. You can only ask for what YOU want. You can’t control the destiny of others.

BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR

At times we may say that we want something and even think at the time that we really want it, but when we actually get it, we may think “OH NO - that’s not really what I wanted”. Pay close attention to what you are asking for. Make sure it’s really what you want. It’s not as easy as it sounds. It takes time and work.

THE PROCESS IS ONGOING

Write down what you want and phrase it as if you already have it. Revise your list often. Make sure everything on your list fits with what you still want. As you grow, you may think of new things or cross of things you really don’t want. You’ll think of more aspects of what you want and add them to the list. When things that you’ve written on your list come to be, you will mark them as manifested.

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YOU Deserve Success!!!

~Roxanne Green~
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My book club is reading “I’m Rich Beyond My Wildest Dreams, I am, I am, I am” by Tom & Penelope Pauley. This book really makes you think. We are at the point where we are making lists. The universe (God in my case) wants us to be wealthy. We were not put on this earth to just survive and slide by. We can have, be or do whatever we want.

This week’s general consensus was that for most of us, it was hard to think of the things that we want. Most of us live our lives as parents, spouses, brothers, sisters, children, employees, etc… That is not WHO we are. That is what we do. It’s hard to sit down and list things that we want to do, be or have because we’ve spent most of our lives doing what others want. Making others happy.

Now it’s time for ME. Time to figure out what I want. Time to figure out who I am. I can be totally selfish. I have to be. That’s the key. I can only manifest for myself. I can’t manifest for someone else. The universe is like a huge catalog and I can pick anything I want out of it.

I’ve already manifested some of the things on my list.

One was my Curves membership. My daughter and I wanted to join Curves, but I didn’t have an extra $300 to spend for both of our memberships. Sure, I could have scraped it together, but we decided we would both write it on our lists.

EXACTLY ONE WEEK after we wrote it down (me on my list and her on hers) we received a postcard in the mail from the Curves in NY where we used to live. The postcard was good for free memberships. I called the local Curves in KY and asked them if they would honor it. The woman who answered the phone told me she didn’t think so, but would check with the owner. She called me back within 15 minutes to say the owner was more than willing to honor the free memberships with the postcard.

I will be periodically writing about different things on my list that I’ve manifested. The key is that we should not share specifics of what is on our lists because we are all one collective consciousness and your possible negative thoughts toward what may be on my list may counteract my positive thoughts about it. So, I will share with you after the manifestation has come to be. I’ll have lots of them, I’m sure.

Have a wonderful day!!

You Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne~
Serious Networkers Allowing Prosperity

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The Law of Attraction tells us that in order to make room for good to come into our lives, we must clear out the negative thoughts, words, influences. Where there is a vacuum, more can come in. Clear out the negative and it will be much easier to think, speak and FEEL positive. Therefore, much easier to manifest good things.

Louise Hay, in her book You Can Heal Your Life, talks about Mental Housecleaning. She says you should examine old memories just like we are cleaning our house. Go from one mental “room” to another. One room at a time, examine your memories. Either polish and dust them to display or throw them out like old clothes and newspapers.

When you begin to clean your mental house it does not matter which “room” you start in. Just get started today.

Cleaning your mental house will be like cleaning a burnt pan. If you’ve ever burnt food in a pan, you know that you can’t just scrub it out. You have to put dishsoap and water in it and let it soak. While it’s soaking it becomes a real mess. The water gets all black and yukky. During the process, it looks like it’s getting worse, but that is actually necessary to get the pan clean.

The mental cleaning process may be like this. You may get to a point where it appears that things are getting worse. Don’t stop. Things really are getting better. You are clearing out mental clutter and it might get “murky” for a while. Work through it.

Remember, you are cleansing your mind. Just like when you cleanse your body, you need to drink plenty of water.

You Can Heal Your Life - Publisher’s Summary

Louise’s key message in this powerful work is: “If we are willing to do the mental work, almost anything can be healed.” Louise explains how limiting beliefs and ideas are often the cause of illness, and how you can change your thinking and improve the quality of your life.

Louise L. Hay is a metaphysical lecturer and teacher, and the best-selling author of 27 books, including Science of Mind and Empowering Women. Her works have been translated into 25 languages in 33 countries throughout the world. Since beginning her career as a Science of Mind minister in 1981, she has assisted thousands of people in discovering and using the full potential of their own creative powers for personal growth and self-healing. Louise is the owner and founder of Hay House, Inc.

©1995 Louise L. Hay; © and (P)1995 Hay House, Inc.

You Deserve Success!!

~Roxanne~
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